Our family of 5!

 Our family of 5. 

In our family their is two trans and gay daddies, a angel baby boy Nico-joyce, who would of been 3. A rainbow baby girl who is 2 1/2. Then our pot of gold who is 6 months. We also have two cats, Hayes and nova and a rabbit called fudge. 

This is our family and I couldn't be happier and proud of, how much we been through to get to where we are and so proud of my husband and our beautiful children. Those has has been horrible and challenging times that honestly has tested our realationship, love and care for each other. We have struck together and reconnected to rebuild this dream family we have. To make as many happy memories as well as some that will also be sad with the lose of our first born but we remember and make his memory live on. The other two have his spirit and it's magically to watch them grow up to cherish what we lost but also that we have them. Our whole lives are for these babies!!. 

I will use this blog now to continue on our story and lives as a whole family, to combined all my previous individual blogs and consolidate into one place rather then repeating self and having the same thing on different blogs. I will however continue the old ones for the kids individual development but this one will be the main platform to share milestones, news and events as a whole family now as our lives go on. I will start by introducing us one by one with more information then document our lives to share our unique family, events and experience we face as an LGBT + family. 

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Nico: 

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